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7Apr/080

If this is “Selfish,” Sign me up

bigfam.gifPamela Paul columnized in the Washington Post today on whether she and her husband's decision to try to have three kids was "showing off" or "selfish." If it is, please sign me up.

"Like a fruitful vine your wife within your home, Like olive plants your children around your table. Just so will they be blessed who fear the LORD." (Psalm 128:3-4)

She starts by setting the story that she and her husband are "are getting ready to do what many couples in these brink-of-recessionary times would consider unthinkable... have a third child."

She then rambles on about how they're stared at already with two children, how friends think they're crazy for thinking about a third ("how will you ever get all of those kids on board an airplane for vacation with you!?!") and the costs of raising a "deluxe family."

I have an idea:

The joy is in the numbers. And in the simplicity that it requires. Every single child is such an awesome blessing and gift.

I will happily "show off" by making thoughtful, personal gifts and tokens of nice things I'll do for my wife and kids rather than going out and spending hundreds of dollars on a birthday or holiday.

I will "show off" by taking my sons on a walk around the park instead of a walk around the mall to brainwash them into more consumerism.

I will "show off" the hand-me-downs that my youngest son wears the conjure the joyful memories of both sons that have worn them.

God bless Mrs. Paul for this column and for being open to a third precious child in her family, but goodness gracious, ma'am, it's not about all the stuff you talk about. The only true costs with children are time and love. And those are the costs in any genuine, meaningful human relationship. Love is the price tag - why does it seem so hard for our nation to afford?

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7Apr/080

Newsflash: The Pope reminds us of the obvious

I'm not faulting him.  We need messages like this.  Especially in an era when the popular media constantly tries to tell us the opposite.

"Divorce and abortion are offences in the sight of God," said Pope Benedict XVI on Saturday, while calling on the Catholic Church [and, by extension, the faithful] to be merciful to those who had experienced such events.

"They are serious offences... which violate human dignity, inflict deep injustice on human and social relations and offend God himself, guarantor of conjugal peace and origin of life," he said.

However he added that there were people who had committed such "errors" but "suffered from wounds to the soul" and "sought peace."

"The Church has the duty to be close to these people with love and delicacy," the pope added.

"Divorce and abortion are choices... which sometimes develop in difficult and dramatic circumstances... and are a source of profound suffering for those who take such decisions.

"They also affect innocent victims, the barely-conceived and unborn infant, the children caught up in divorces."

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7Apr/080

Illinois: More Messed Up Gov’t

illinois.gifIt's days like today when I wish that I could say I was proud of my home state, but I just can't in all honesty.

What an embarassment, in fact...

"Gov. Rod Blagojevich on Monday signed into law a measure designed to ensure the presidency goes to the winner of the popular vote, joining Maryland and New Jersey in promising to award electoral votes to the candidate with the most support nationwide," reports the Belleville News-Democrat.

Ah, the irony. We, as students in the state's public education system have to take (and pass) civics classes and tests on the U.S. and Illinois Constitution. And we have to learn about the reasons that the founding fathers put the Electoral College into place and the value of the system.

But apparently our lawmakers missed those days in class and those questions on the test - or they just conveniently forgot them in the meantime.

Luckily, the law doesn't go into effect unless enough states to generate 270 votes (a majority) in the Electoral College approve the measure. But who knows... with the senseless and irrational "Not my President" and "Selected, not Elected" bumper sticker campaigns en masse after the last presidential elections, there may just be enough popular support to pull that off.  Let's hope not, for the sake of our nation and a smart balance to swings of popular momentum (need we only look to the Obamessiah to knock us to our senses on that one?)

In related news, Lt. Gov. Patrick Quinn (yes, you read that right: THE Lieutenant Governor) is pushing for a constitutional amendment to the Illinois state constitution that would open the door for a recall of an elected official. Asked yesterday, Quinn said "that Governor Rod Blagojevich would almost certainly be the target of a recall attempt if the amendment passes." 

Ah, the irony of opening governance completely to popular whims...

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7Apr/080

75 Years Sans Prohibition

clydesdales.jpgIn 1933, the Golden Gate Bridge was being built in San Francisco, book
burnings were starting in Germany, and the manufacture, transport,
import, export, or consumption of alcohol in the U.S.A. was illegal. Until today.

Today marks 75 years since the first Budweiser Clydesdales departed the brewery here in St. Louis pulling a carriage heading to Washington, D.C. with the first post-prohibitino beer bound for President FDR. The old story around these parts is that the President was a fan of beer and that the first lady was a fan of horses, so AB made sure both were covered.

"When Prohibition was introduced, I hoped that it would be widely supported by public opinion and the day would soon come when the evil effects of alcohol would be recognized. I have slowly and reluctantly come to believe that this has not been the result. Instead, drinking has generally increased; the speakeasy has replaced the saloon; a vast army of lawbreakers has appeared; many of our best citizens have openly ignored Prohibition; respect for the law has been greatly lessened; and crime has increased to a level never seen before."
- John D. Rockefeller, 1932

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6Apr/080

Whirlwind – yet relaxing – weekend

Wow.  Is it Sunday night?

Friday evening, we had Jameson (a.k.a. Andy to friends) and Shaun over for dinner and had a great time and a wonderful meal.  They stuck around for a while into the night and hung out with me and drank coffee and talked in the downstairs family room.

Then on Saturday we got a lot of work (and laundry) done around the house before I headed to the rectory for a meeting about the parish 20th anniversary "Old Fashioned Family Reunion" celebration, then to warm up and 4:00 Mass in the church.  Then we had some Applebees carside to go and relaxed at home as a family before the boys' bedtime.

Today, we all went to 10:30 Mass and then did a lot of prep for Father Jeff to come over for dinner and conversation (including Matthew and me visiting three different stores in town to track down another pork tenderloin.)  We had a wonderful day and evening, though, and are finally settling down to get some rest.  I have an early morning, starting a support shift at 7 AM!  Time for some ZZZs...

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6Apr/080

“One Who Has Hope Lives Differently”

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I'm loving the bus ad that's now apparently on Metro busses around DC, according to American Papist. I really love the message and the side of Pope Benedict that it conveys. Come to think of it, I'm due for a trip to the Herndon office in the next couple of weeks.  I may have to do so and try to sneak a photo of one of these in real life one evening.

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6Apr/080

More about Lincoln in Alton

Today's Belleville News Democrat covered the Lincoln festivities happening next weekend in Alton in great detail in the "Sunday Magazine."  The cover article even included a quote from none other than Suzanne!  See if you can spot the "Halbrook" name in this article.

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6Apr/080

Sacred music

b15objects0124.jpgWow.  In two days, two fell swoops of awesome movement on the sacred music front:

On Friday (4/6), Archbishop Burke across the river in St. Louis announced that Father Samuel A. Weber, OSB is joining the new Institute of Sacred Worship for the archdiocese.  "the new office will offer to parish music directors and choirs several educational programs, including those in Gregorian Chant; singing of the Mass in English, particularly the Entrance Antiphon, the Responsorial Psalm and the Communion Antiphon; the Liturgy of the Hours; and the full implementation of the English translation of the Roman Missal."

Followed by an annoucement out of the Belleville Diocese just south of us that "'The Belleville Diocesan Schola' is being formed."

Rock on!  If I may, I ask for a prayer for approval of a related effort that I'm trying to put forward in our own parish.

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4Apr/080

Rise and Shine!

Zucchini squash and heatwave lettuce blend... almost ready to thin and transplant.

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3Apr/080

Starbucks Idea: You Heard it Here First

A few weeks ago, Starbucks (love 'em or hate 'em) launched a new social networking / conversation with customers site where customers (with a Starbucks.com account) could post their ideas for the company to improve its Products, Experience, or Involvement.  The jury is still out on whether all of the initial posts were legitimate or some were planted, but one (legit or planted?) is about to come true, even though it's still marked as "**UNDER REVIEW***" on the MyStarbucksIdea.com site:

Next week, it seems, you'll be able to get a little stick-insert in your to-go cup lid that'll keep your coffee from splashing out and spilling on you in the car.

Here's the "idea" on the site:

Tonight, at a Starbucks I happened by (I won't identify which location here to keep the staff out of trouble, since they made it clear they weren't supposed to pull these out until next week, but the package already happened to be open), I scored this:

 

 

So... I like the little device a lot.  Suzanne has one piece of feedback though... she's worried that if she isn't careful about how she pulls it out of the opening in the cup, she'll end up with coffee and/or milk/creamer from her drink all over herself from it splashing out with the stick.  One thing's for sure: it's nice, well-branded, multi-functional, and keeps in mind the MyStarbucksIdea concern over the residue left by little stickers over the hole.

What do you think?  Good improvement on the old drive-thru coffee?  Unnecessary?  And was the idea a "plant" or legitimate and well-executed this quickly?

 

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